My friend passed away today….

My friend Jerome passed away today.  Jerome was mentally challenged and cared for by the Daughters of Charity in Los Angeles.  Despite his humble abilities and resources he was probably happier then all of us. 

A very religious guy it was his dream to be buried at the LA Cathedral in a place reserved for the rich and/or high ranking church officials.  He saved his money and made this happen even though some scoffed at his inclusion in such an exclusive place. Fuck these people.

On a day when I am unhappy with my Job and trying to figure out where I go next Jerome’s passing puts it all in perspective.  Jerome did it his way and was happy.  I don’t think Jerome ever remembered me very well when I saw him but it’s OK.  I learned a lot from him and wanted to share with you.

Jerome was suffering from Congestive Heart failure.  Today the nurse came into his room and asked how he was doing.  I am told he gave her a great big smile, took a deep breath and then left.  I’ll miss Jerome a lot but I know he is moving on to his next great adventure and doing it just the way he wanted to…..

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